Sexuality

Viadrene Plus - Natural Herbal Viagra Alternative for Erectile Dysfunction

2011-10-01T07:18:00.000-07:00

I'm always skeptical to try things like this. So many alternatives on the market, so little work. I can not take Viagra, it gives me a headache more painful and I feel nauseous all the time. I have to go with something natural.

Then a friend recommended to me Viadrene. He said that when ordered, arrived quickly, and if you take 2 a day, should help with erectile dysfunction.
He was absolutely right, I took 2 a day and not looking back.
My sex life and libido went through the roof, my wife is very happy, and I owe it all to Viadrene Plus

The only drawback I feel is the cost. It 'a little' pricey, but worth it, considering I have now order in bulk - you buy 2 get 1 free and buy 3 get 2 free offers, which commonly go.

I highly recommend this product to all those who want their sex lives back and to feel 18 again!

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Fleshlight Original Male Masturbator, Pink Lady

2011-10-01T07:15:00.001-07:00

I bought a Fleshlight for a joke when it first came out a number of years ago. My wife was having a difficult pregnancy and I needed a more satisfying form of sexual liberation, my hand can provide. The salesman at the store I often convinced me to give it a try even though I thought the price was a bit 'steep.

When I tried the first time I could not believe how real feelings. I closed my eyes and began to fantasize. Needless to say, it was like my first time all over again and it was way more quickly. Loosening or tightening the cap you can obtain the desired tightness.

A couple of things to keep in mind. You can not hurry when you use the fleshlight. Be sure and soak it in hot water before you start. You will feel much more real. Keep a lot of good quality water soluble lubricant on hand and do not use a silicone based lubricant. Keep lots of extra lubricant on hand during a long session, because if you are laying on your back will tend to run out and not feel as good if it is dry. You must also be sure to thoroughly clean and dry both cases the sleeve and the first to put on.

Even after several years of using my Fleshlight is like new. I'm still accumulated as satisfy my orgasms have been using all his. It never gets old.

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Samsung i897 Captivate Android smartphone Galaxy S (Unlocked)

2011-07-04T01:47:00.001-07:00

Upon receiving the Samsung Captivate takes me a pleasant surprise, AMOLED display looks great, the phone looks great, I liked the Wizard of contact with another, I did not like AT & T disables the ability to install applications outside market, but this was resolved once you install the rom CyanogenMod 7, now I use the android 2.3.4, the phone works great, definitely, like this Samsung in particular the ability to update the phone is something I was looking for after two Motorola Android, clear to me that I will never buy a Motorola phone, but never, even if the phones are good, Motorola has a particularly bad policy in relation to the updating of the telephones.

I bought this phone unlocked because I live in Costa Rica, so I needed a phone that works with the local operator, and in turn this phone is the best buy I could do, working with the 850MHz 3G network ICE (Costa Rica carrier s government) and the Android Froyo 2.2 installed works perfect with a bright AMOLED 4 in. and 1 GHz processor faster. I recommend to also buy an Otterbox case for this device box, which fits great. I bought it at $ 374.99 and is the best deal I could find a phone with the technical details.

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Avalon Organics Baby Natural Mineral Sunscreen, SPF 18 , 3.5 Fluid Ounces (100 ml)

2011-07-03T06:00:00.000-07:00

Baby Safe - Clinically tested Pediatrician confirmed hypo-allergenic, no paraben, fragrance. Certified organic blend of chamomile, aloe, jojoba and sunflower. Non-greasy cream protects vulnerable skin with effective titanium dioxide, natural UV

Review 1.
Avalon Organic solar rubs in clear, odorless and protects the skin of my little sun damage. I applied the 20 minutes before taking a stroll in the sunshine today, and his skin is still white as snow. Amazing product, I will definitely buy again.

Review 2.
Ideal sunscreen for our baby. We are very concerned with SPF protection and keeping harmful chemicals away from it. This sunscreen does both. It's nice, non-greasy and fragrance free. We live in Georgia, where the sun can be brutal and that brings this all day at the beach (with a couple of new applications) and has never gotten burned. We are very pleased with this product.

Rvca Juniors Warrior Hoodie

2011-07-01T22:43:00.001-07:00

Product Description

From the Manufacturer
Short-sleeved, adjustment lags, zippered sweatshirt.

Product Description
Zip on the shirt lanky, funky hooded Guerrero RVCA Women and school friends of her boyfriend on the night of poker. Have been invited, because no one feels excluded. So to all buy in. Again.

Product Features

Material: cotton, polyester, rayon blend
Adjustment: long, loose
Front: zipper
Hood: yes
Pockets: two side
Recommended Use: casual
Manufacturer Warranty:

Review
It runs on the large side and is longer, as shown in the picture. The washed and dried on low heat and everything was fine. I would recommend this product, but suggest ordering at least one size down.

Speedo Race Xtra Life Lycra Quantum Splice Superpro Swimsuit

2011-07-01T05:51:00.000-07:00

As a former competitive swimmer, I'm used to the products of Speedo. In any case, I ordered a size larger than you normally do, because of the reviews listed here and had to go back. I wear a size 08/10 clothes. A bathing suit was ridiculous in me 40. I needed a comfortable 36 for a practice suit is not the tightness of the competition.

Ladies, correct assembly of a Speedo bathing suit can not be what we are accustomed. The legs are cut too high a couple of inches from the natural waistline. It does not follow his hipline. Walk to suit! I promise that used to fall or have a super wedgie.

Once you get your legs in the right place, the remainder of the claim must be comfortable. That's a good choice for a practice suit. A costume competition will be 2 sizes smaller than snug. ;) As soon as demand gets wet, it stretches. Also be extended with frequent use. If you order a suit that feels comfortably dry loose, it will be soft and loose in the pool. This will cause a drag and discomfort felt by the dress swish around your body while swimming.

This is a great game with a very flattering. After gaining a few kilos since my competitive days, I must say that I look fantastic costume. Any extra "mutts" around the waist is made invisible by the dark background, while attention is drawn to the most clear and visually slimming. Read More...

Britax Boulevard 70 Convertible Car Seat

2011-06-30T19:34:00.000-07:00

So far, so good enough, with the Boulevard for us. We chose this location based on CR ratings, reviews Baby Bargains and the fact that it was easy to adjust the straps for tightness and height.Our son seems very comfortable seat, and naps in it without problems. However, the seat has some disadvantages that should not exist in reality, considering its exorbitant price.

- The seat is easy to install, but very heavy and very large. We have a 2010 Toyota Rav-4, but still think that the seat is too large. It fits, but I do not think we will be able to use the same model of a second seat in our smallest sedan.

- The straps twist CONSTANTLY that, once again, should not be a problem since it was a $ 300 car seat. Seriously, could not fix the problem with a small part of my purchase price? They are also difficult to keep out of the way when you set up little guy in the seat, so I have to dig out from under him (before untwisting them) almost every time. They have included Velcro straps and the seat to try to help with this problem, but is basically useless.

- I do not know whether it is due to the overall size of the seat or if it's just a scourge of the rear seats, but it is inconvenient to get our son in and out of the seat facing the rear. Even at 10 months and hates to get out of the office, even if it's okay once it's inside and buckles. I almost long arm to hold him, him down and then around the seat and lean into the car to fix the wiring.Super annoying.

- I have not tried to remove the seat fabric for cleaning (and after reading some of the other reviews, are not eager to try it), but the buckle is a pain in the neck than to clean it if anything goes. Again, this might be the case with any site, but after spending 20 minutes trying to scrape spit-up, I want to wear a bib in the car my son suffered.

All that being said, I'm pretty happy with the seat and since our son is very high (almost 34 inches to 10 months), we needed larger premises to accommodate the rear facing to keep it as long as possible, so this was probably our best bet. Read More...

Clear Care Cleaning & Disinfecting Solution

2011-06-30T02:34:00.000-07:00

Clear Care Cleaning & Disinfecting Solution:I changed the standard multipurpose solution a few months ago
on the recommendation of my optometrist. I had the dryness and
itching from time to time. The switch definitely helped. The
lenses are very comfortable Clear Care Cleaning &
Disinfecting Solution when inserted in the morning, no
clarification is necessary. The lenses stay fresh throughout the
month of their destiny.

Supposedly, peroxide cleaning is recommended for silicone
hydrogel contact most recent, as they absorb the chemicals in the
other solutions that can cause a reaction. In the peroxide-type
systems, after neutralization to stay with a balanced salt
solution, without preservatives, it is much easier on the eyes.

It’s amazing how many people do not read the instructions and
ignoring warnings to get Opti Free Replenish Contact Lens
Solution 10 Ounce Bottles In 2 Count Boxes ALL the packaging
without neutralizing the peroxide in your eyes, and then blame
the manufacturers and give negative comments.

As long as you follow the instructions you will be satisfied with
this product. There are two disadvantages to consider: 1 – after
controlling can not leave the lens more than 48 hours the
solution is preservative-free – therefore, should be disinfected
again. 2 – when traveling or under certain circumstances you may
want to be able to Visine Tired Eye Relief 0.5 Fluid
Ounces Boxes absorb their lenses for a shorter time to start
using them again (and after swimming). You can not use Clean care
due to waiting at least 6 hours. Therefore in the case remain
flat and have a spare bottle of multipurpose solution in hand. It
also has a bottle of saline for the occasional machine (for
example, if a particle in the target)

Cuisinart Programmable Coffeemaker With Hot Water System

2011-06-27T22:08:00.000-07:00

A product that makes me want to switch from "unhappy" nick! It does not apply here.

Easy to configure, easy to use and clean. It has a setting to make a small pot (thank God I can not drink 12 cups a day) when necessary. Programs to have the coffee ready for use.

1) Pour water on top if you use the bottle is not as easy as it might be to prevent leakage. I have spent a small kitchen funnel simplely to the task. Ten times easier now.

2) I have to start buying more coffee! That makes the coffee properly. Now I can tell the difference between coffees. My old Mr. Coffee black sludge produced the same old, no matter what you put into it. I used to avoid coffee, because my coffee machine that produces the bad coffee and I never liked the material very dark roast $ Starbuck is serving. On holiday in Hawaii did a tour of the Greenwell farms coffee plantations and found out I like good coffee. (Meduim roasted Kona coffee FTW! Get 100% Kona where you get it, avoid anything that is a "mixture" of 90% Kona and not very well. Who wants a cup of coffee mixed with 90% bad 10% good?) My old coffee could not prepare well and make it one. I'm not a snob coffee, I do not know what the water temperature is not roast and grind my own beans (might get a grinder though now):) I will not spend time so that it is a vacuum press or waste time with CEMEX, but I know better coffee maker made a good one is clearly better. This brewer has more coffee than the other 3 I had (all super discounts and that he had "as" coffee)

I know that if you use a French press or some other method, not fussy other specialty coffee rain dance "coffee people" say it would be even better. But I want to have my coffee ready when I intended. I do not want to stand there and fool with it, just pour and enjoy. Besides, I have a hot water dispenser I've always wanted. That works well too. I think I'm going to pour another drink. Read More...

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J Brand Secret Fit

2011-06-27T07:29:00.000-07:00

A Pea In The Pod Collection: J Brand Houlihan Secret Fit Belly(tm) Cargo Pockets Maternity Bermuda Shorts

A Pea In The Pod Collection: J Brand Secret Fit Belly(tm) 5 Pocket Boot Cut Maternity Jeans

A Pea In The Pod Collection: J Brand Secret Fit Belly(tm) Cargo Pockets Slim Leg Maternity Jeans

These Collections are super sexy to become a part of their daily uniform this season. They are perfect casually in a shirt and flip-flops, or dress up a pair of high heels and a blouse for a sexy night out to dinner and clubs with the arm

Charms Pandora

2011-06-27T06:44:00.000-07:00

Snake Chain Bracelet Pandora Charm Bead Compatible

I bought three of these packages, one for me and two to give as gifts. I absolutely love them! The beads are beautiful and great quality. They were all different colors and mix and match my clothes. The recipients were thrilled, too. This is a great way and affordable way to add to your collection Pandora. I will definitely buy more and intend to give as gifts for the maid of honor. I can not recommend this product enough!

Pack Of Ten (10) Assorted Colorful 100% Pure Murano Glass Bead Charms Fits Pandora, Chamilia, Troll, And Biagi Charm Bracelets
It is unfortunate that this has just mentioned is not available. It is absolutely adorable. Came in slightly smaller than I had imagined, but I loved it so much. Very detailed and does not fit the Pandora bracelet. Worth every penny.

Tom The Turkey Thanksgiving Solid Sterling Silver Authentic Ohm Beads Fits European Charm Bead Bracelets
A bracelet of beads Pandora style excellent. I made several and always very attractive. Thanks Amazon for having continually in action, jewelry supplies that can be created from.

winter coat

2011-06-26T08:02:00.000-07:00

Mountain Hardwear Downtown Down Coat - Women's Winter White - M

I searched, purchased and tested many other high-end layered society. This is the warmest coat them all. The bottom layer is so thin and you can really move it. I am a preschool teacher who is out of hours during the winter months. I am very warm and stylish while wearing my Mountain Hardwear Downtown Coat. I am small, four feet eleven inches, 30 inch waist and a double chest D. The large size is a bit wide allowing real clothes to be worn underneath. The top-down, the close button in place is key. I usually buy the brand for gear TNF abroad. Having purchased and tested many versions of his style of Down Coat center can not be compared. His cool made me, it felt like an armor and not worth the price of $ 300. So happy that I stepped out of the box of TNF and bought a jacket Mountain Hardwear. I hope your so happy with his team and myself. I can not wait to buy more Mountain Hardwear brand team.

BGSD Men's Wool Blend Pea Coat - Black Large

I ordered the jacket for my son. The coat comes a day ahead of schedule and that it is a bonus. Coat incredible look good, fits very well and people are not kidding you stop in the street / sidewalk at the mall to congratulate him on his coat. If I had not seen it with my own eyes would not believe. Fits great, looks great, goes with everything!, What more could you want?

Phistic Women's Long Quilted Down Coat - Chocolate M

This coat is incredibly warm, and has very nice detail that makes it look a lot smarter than many of the wraps down around. The lines are scarce, but the layer is not strong (you can go jacked easily) and therefore it is flattering. It was also very well priced

ภาพมันฟ้อง มีนักฟุตบอลนครปฐม ร่วมยำกรรมการ

2010-12-27T05:31:00.000-08:00

จากคลิปและภาพนิ่งที่มีการบันทึกไว้ ปรากฎภาพคนใส่เสื้อทีม นครปฐม FC หมายเลข 7 (หมายเลขเสื้อของนายเฉลิมศักดิ์ แก้วสุขแท้) เข้าชกกรรมการด้วย

ขณะเดียวกัน วันนี้ เวลา 14.30 น. พันจ่าอากาศเอก นพพร หรือจ่าเอ้ ศิริรังศรี ผู้ก่อเหตุที่ชักอาวุธปืนชูกลางสนามฟุตบอล ได้เดินทางเข้ามอบตัวกับเจ้าหน้าที่ตำรวจ สภ. กำแพงแสน จ.นครปฐม โดยให้การปฎิเสธข้อกล่าวหาพร้อมขอประกันตัวออกไปสู้คดีในชั้นศาล อ่านรายละเอียดและดูภาพเหตุการณ์ทั้งหมด ที่นี่ http://sport.spiceday.com/thread-184321-1-1.hot

รวมคลิป-ภาพชัดๆ แฟนบอล นครปฐม ปะทะ ศรีสะเกษ

2010-12-25T21:17:00.000-08:00

ในช่วงท้ายเกมได้เกิดเหตุวุ่นวายขึ้น เมื่อมีแฟนบอลกลุ่มหนึ่งลงไปในสนามและเข้าไปรุมทำร้าย อภิสิทธิ์ อ้นรักษ์ ผู้ตัดสินที่ทำหน้าที่ในเกมนี้ ก่อนที่กองเชียร์ทั้งสองฝ่ายจะปะทะกันจนมีผู้ได้รับบาดเจ็บหลายราย ซึ่งบางรายถึงขั้นบาดเจ็บสาหัส โดยตำรวจและเจ้าหน้าที่รักษาความปลอดภัยใช้เวลาอยู่พักหนึ่งกว่าจะควบคุม สถานการณ์เอาไว้ได้ อ่านรายละเอียดและดูคลิป http://sport.spiceday.com/thread-184321-1-1.hot

เค้กขอนไม้ (Bûche de Noël หรือ Yule Log)

2010-12-24T08:57:00.000-08:00

Bûche de Noël หรือ Yule Log หรือที่คนไทยเรียกกันว่า “เค้กขอนไม้”นั้น ถือเป็นขนมหวานที่คนฝรั่งเศสจะต้องกินทุกปีในวันคริสต์มาส หลังจากกินไก่งวงแล้วก็จะมี Bûche de Noël มาเสิร์ฟเป็นขนมหวาน http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184077-1-1.hot

Up on the House Top เป็นเพลงคริสมาส ที่แต่งขึ้นโดย Benjamin Hanby ในปี 1864 ในเมือง New Paris โอไฮโอ้ ซึ่งความหมายของ Up on the House Top เพลงนี้ก็ตรงตัวเลยคือหมายความว่า ขึ้นไปบนหลังคาบ้าน ในความหมายก็คือแซนต้าขึ้นไปบนหลังคาเพื่อเอาของขวัญย่อนลงมาจากปล่องไฟ นั้นเอง http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184081-1-1.hot

อู๊ดส์ (Ouds) เป็นเครื่องดนตรีประเภทเครื่องสาย ซึ่งมีอายุยาวมานานในประวัติศาสตร์ชาวอาหรับ ด้วยรูปทรงที่แข็งแรงและมีการแกะสลักลวดลายที่สวยงาม ทำให้เครื่องดนตรีชนิดนี้นิยมเล่นกันแพร่หลายในทุกๆทวีป http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184078-1-1.hot

เรือกอนโดลา (gondola) เป็นเรือพายพื้นบ้านของชาวเวนิส ใช้เป็นพาหนะหลักของการเดินทางในเมืองเวนิส ประเทศอิตาลี มานานหลายร้อยปี http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184079-1-1.hot

ภาพมุมกว้างของ อ่าวซิดนีย์ (Sydney Harbour)

2010-12-23T19:03:00.000-08:00

ประเทศเนปาล เป็นประเทศที่ไม่มีทางออกสู่ทะเลในเอเชียใต้ บริเวณเทือกเขาหิมาลัย มีพรมแดนติดกับทิเบตของจีน และประเทศอินเดีย เนปาลเคยเป็นรัฐเดียวในโลกที่มีศาสนาฮินดูเป็นศาสนาประจำชาติ รัฐธรรมนูญฉบับปัจจุบันของเนปาลระบุให้ประเทศเป็นสาธารณรัฐโลกวิสัย นอกจากศาสนาฮินดูที่คนเนปาลส่วนใหญ่นับถือแล้ว เนปาลยังเป็นที่ตั้งของศาสนสถานสำคัญของพุทธศาสนา คือลุมพินีวัน ที่ประสูติของพระโคตมพุทธเจ้า http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184026-1-1.hot

พริก ชื่อเหล่านี้มักหมายถึง พริกที่มีขนาดเล็ก ส่วนพริกขนาดใหญ่ที่มีรสอ่อนกว่าจะเรียกว่า Bell Pepper ในสหรัฐอเมริกา Pepper ในประเทศอังกฤษและไอร์แลนด์, capsicum ในประเทศอินเดียกับออสเตรเลีย และ Paprika ในประเทศทวีปยุโรปหลายประเทศ พริกชนิดต่างๆ มีต้นกำเนิดมาจากทวีปอเมริกา ซึ่งในปัจจุบันนี้ได้มีปลูกกันในหลายประเทศทั่วโลก เพราะพริกเป็นเครื่องเทศที่สำคัญชื่อหนึ่ง และยังมีคุณสมบัติเป็นยาสมุนไพรด้วยเช่นกัน http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184030-1-1.hot

เฮนนา (โคมไฟเฮนนา) http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184029-1-1.hot

ประเทศชิลีนั้น เรื่องของไวน์นับเป็นมรดกทางวัฒนธรรมส่วนหนึ่ง ไวน์ชิลี เป็นหนึ่งในไวน์ที่มีความเป็นธรรมชาติและมีความเป็นมิตรต่อสิ่งแวดล้อม

“ในประเทศชิลีมีการเพาะปลูกไร่องุ่นอยู่ทั่วประเทศ เป็นองุ่นที่ มีคุณภาพสูง เพาะปลูกอยู่ในสภาพแวดล้อมที่สะอาด ปลอดภัย ไร้มลพิษ รับรองได้ว่าเป็นประโยชน์ต่อสุขภาพและมีความอนามัยสูง จึงถูกจัดอยู่ในอันดับที่ 11 ของกลุ่มประเทศผู้ผลิตไวน์ นอกจากนี้ยังเป็นประเทศที่ส่งออกไวน์มากที่สุดเป็นอันดับที่ 5 ในกลุ่มผู้ส่งออก ทั่วโลก”. http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184028-1-1.hot

ภาพมุมกว้างของ อ่าวซิดนีย์ (Sydney Harbour) โดยมีโรงอุปรากรซิดนีย์อยู่ทางซ้าย ย่านธุรกิจตรงกลาง และ สะพานซิดนีย์ฮาเบอร์ทางขวาของภาพ http://dictionary.spiceday.com/thread-184027-1-1.hot

สมาคมนักข่าวบันเทิง ตั้งฉายาให้กับดารา ประจำปี 2553

2010-12-20T23:58:00.000-08:00

กลายเป็นธรรมเนียมปฏิบัติไปแล้วในช่วงปลายปีสำหรับการตั้งฉายาให้กับคน บันเทิงโดยสมาคมนักข่าวบันเทิง เริ่มกันตั้งแต่นางเอกสาวตาคม "พิงกี้ สาวิกา ไชยเดช" ที่ต้องมรสุมกับข่าวรักสามเส้าจนถึงกับประกาศพักงานชั่งคราว และมีแผนการณ์ที่เตรียมจะไปเอาดีที่อินเดีย งานนี้เธอก็เลยได้รับฉายา "ส่าหรีลี้รัก" ไปครอง

มาถึงนักแสดงหญิง "ธัญญ่า ธัญญาเรศ เองตระกูล" รับฉายา "เมียหลวงลวงสังหาร" หลังต้องลุกขึ้นมาปกป้องครอบครัวของตนเองและต้องฟาดฟันมรสุมข่าวฉาวๆ จากสาวพิ้งกี้ โดยเฉพาะประเด็นเรื่องของคลิปเสียงหลุดการสนทนาของเธอกับผู้เป็นสามี "เป๊ก สัณชัย" นั่นเองที่ทำให้เธอรับฉายาดังกล่าวไป อ่านต่อคลิกที่นี่

วิเคราะห์บอลวันนี้ เสือเตี้ยสับไก วิเคราะห์-ฟันธง (แม็ทซ์ เสาร์-อาทิตย์ 11-12 ธ.ค.53)

2010-12-11T04:53:00.000-08:00

อ่านวิเคราะห์บอลวันนี้ ทุกคู่ คลิกที่นี่

สเปอร์ส - เชลซี
ศึกลอนดอนดาร์บี้ ไก่เดือยทองมี ดีที่เกมรุก แถมกึ๋นของเรดเเน็ปป์ แก้เกมได้ดีให้เห็นมาหลายนัด ส่วนเชลซีเริ่มจะถูกจับทางได้ เกมรุกที่เคยคมก็แย่ เพราะดร็อกบายิงไม่ได้มาหลายเกม สเปอร์ส น่าจะเบียดชนะ 2-1

แมนฯ ยูไนเต็ด - อาร์เซน่อล
ผีแดงเริ่ม เข้าฝัก เกมโดยรวมดีขึ้น เบอร์บาตอฟ ไม่ใช้โอกาสเปลือง ส่วนทีมเยือนแม้ไม่มี ฟาเบรกาส ก็อยู่ได้ เกมไหลลื่น นาสรี กำลังรุ่ง แต่ผีแดงมีดีตรงเล่นในบ้านแพ้ยาก บวกกับเล่นในสถานการณ์กดดันหรือบิ๊กแมตช์ได้ดีกว่า น่าจะเบียดชนะ 2-1

ดูละครวายุภัคมนตรา ย้อนหลัง

2010-12-10T09:36:00.000-08:00

ดูละครวายุภัคมนตรา ย้อนหลังทุกตอน คลิกที่นี่!

รายชื่อนักแสดงนำในละคร วายุภัคมนตรา
สันติสุข พรหมศิริ แสดงเป็น มนตรี
จินตหรา สุขพัฒน์ แสดงเป็น สุพรรษา
ปกรณ์ ฉัตรบริรักษ์ แสดงเป็น วายุภัค หรือ ลม
ราศรี บาเล็นซิเอก้า แสดงเป็น ทิชากร หรือ กะทิ
ปริญ สุภารัตน์ แสดงเป็น ปฐพี
ชาลิดา วิจิตรวงศ์ทอง แสดงเป็น เฌอเอม
ณเดชน์ คูกิมิยะ แสดงเป็น อัคนี
อุรัสยา เสปอร์บันด์ แสดงเป็น อัจจิมา
คิมเบอร์รี่ แอน โวลเทมัส แสดงเป็น ทิพย์ธารา
อธิชาติ ชุมนานนท์ แสดงเป็น เจ้าชายภูวเนศ
สุพิชชา มงคลจิตตานนท์ แสดงเป็น รัก
ปีเตอร์แพน แสดงเป็น ยม
สุเชาว์ พงษ์วิไล แสดงเป็น ไกรฤกษ์
ปวีณา ชารีฟสกุล แสดงเป็น ทิพย์
ตรีพล พรมสุวรรณ แสดงเป็น ภาณุ
สุมนต์รัตน์ วัฒนาเศลารัตน์ แสดงเป็น พัชนี
สมเล็ก ศักดิกุล แสดงเป็น กำนันทอง
สะอาด เปี่ยมพงศ์สานต์ แสดงเป็น หมอไสยดำ
เบญจพล เชยอรุณ แสดงเป็น ศักดิ์
จั๊กบุ๋ม เชิญยิ้ม แสดงเป็น เสก
พุดเดิ้ล แสดงเป็น นากรี
อเล็กซานดร้า สติเบิร์ท แสดงเป็น ซองแตล
ดารณีนุช โพธิปิติ แสดงเป็น กัญญา
ดนัย จารุจินดา แสดงเป็น นที
อดิศร อรรถกฤษณ์ แสดงเป็น วรุณ
มาวิน ทวีผล แสดงเป็น ราจีฟ

ดูละครมงกุฎดอกส้ม - ดูละครเงากามเทพ ย้อนหลัง

2010-12-09T08:18:00.000-08:00

ดูละครมงกุฎดอกส้ม ย้อนหลัง

ดูละครเงากามเทพ ย้อนหลัง

รายชื่อนักแสดงนำในละคร เงากามเทพ

ศุกลวัฒน์ คณารส รับบทเป็น โรม
ดาวิกา โฮร์เน รับบทเป็น ดอกเทียน
ธาราเขต เพ็ชรสุกใส รับบทเป็น กุลชาติ
ณัฐวัฒน์ เปล่งศิริวัธน์ รับบทเป็น ลักษณมน
ชวัลกร วรรธนพิสิฐกุล รับบทเป็น มนทิรา
อิสซาเบล่า เลเต้ รับบทเป็น นภา
พัฒนะ พันธุ์เทวะ รับบทเป็น ชาญ
เจษยา เวียงเกตุ รับบทเป็น ปาหนัน
วรวุฒิ นิยมทรัพย์ รับบทเป็น กมนทัต
พัสสน ศรินทุ รับบทเป็น กมัยธร
กชกร นิมากรณ์ รับบทเป็น พิศเพลิน

ติดตามชม ละครเงากามเทพ ได้ทุกวันพุธ - พฤหัสบดี เวลา 20.25 น. ทางช่อง 7 สี ละครเงากามเทพ เริ่มตอนแรก วันพุธที่ 8 ธันวาคม 2553

ดูละครเงากามเทพ ย้อนหลัง

รายชื่อนักแสดงนำในละคร มงกุฎดอกส้ม

ฉัตรชัย เปล่งพานิช รับบท เจ้าสัวเชงสือเกียง
จริยา แอนโฟเน รับบท เม่งฮวย / เมีย 1
รินลณี ศรีเพ็ญ รับบท เยนหลิง / เมีย 2
ณัฐริกา ธรรมปรีดานันท์ รับบท เหม่เกว่ (โรส) / เมีย 3
วนิดา เติมธนาภรณ์ (กิ๊ฟซี่ Girly Berry) รับบท คำแก้ว / เมีย 4
วิทยา วสุไกรไพศาล รับบท ก้องเกียรติ
อภินันท์ ประเสริฐวัฒนกุล รับบท หมอทรงชัย
สุพจน์ จันทร์เจริญ รับบท เรืองยศ
มิณทิตา วัฒนกุล รับบท กิมลั้ง
พิศมัย วิไลศักดิ์ รับบท อาอึ้ม
ด.ช. รจนกร อยู่หน้า รับบท เกียรติกร (เด็ก)

ติดตามชม ละครมงกุฎดอกส้ม ได้ทุกวัน พุธ-พฤหัสบดี เวลา 20.25 น. ทางไทยทีวีสีช่อง 3 ละครมงกุฎดอกส้ม เริ่มตอนแรก วันพฤหสบดีที่ 9 ธันวาคม 2553

ดูละครมงกุฎดอกส้ม ย้อนหลัง

ดวงชะตาของท่าน (ระหว่างวันที่ 6-12 ธันวาคม 2553)

2010-12-06T22:34:00.000-08:00

ดูคำทำนายทุกราศี คลิกที่นี่

ราศี เมษ 13 เมษายน ถึง 14 พฤษภาคม

ท่านมีเกณฑ์เดินทางมากในช่วงนี้ซึ่งทำให้งานที่คั่งค้างอยู่และต้องมอบหมาย ให้คนอื่น ดูแลติดตามเรื่องต่อควรมีความชัดเจนเพื่อให้งานดังกล่าวไม่เสียหายในช่วงที่ ท่านไม่อยู่ การเงินดีมีรายได้เข้ามาต่อเนื่อง สัปดาห์นี้หากเหนื่อยที่จะเข้าร่วมงานสังคมต่างๆก็พักบ้างน่าจะดีเพราะหากไป ก็ไม่สดใสดูไม่ดี การลงทุนในตลาดทุนมีโอกาสทำกำไรให้ท่านได้พอสมควร โดยเฉพาะกลุ่มธุรกิจที่ทำการส่งออกหรือร่วมทุนกับต่างชาติ พระบางรูปอาจทำให้ท่านรู้สึกไม่ดีแต่ก็ไม่ได้หมายถึงทุกรูปต้องแยกแยะ

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ราศี พฤษภ 15 พฤษภาคม ถึง 14 มิถุนายน

สัปดาห์นี้ควรให้ความสนใจไปที่ความคิดความรู้สึกของพนักงานลูกน้องบางคนที่ ดูเหมือนมีบางอย่างอยู่ในใจซึ่งมีผลให้ประสิทธิภาพของงานน้อยลงได้ อีกทั้งเพื่อป้องกันไม่ให้เป็นปัญหาใหญ่ ขึ้นมา การเงินในช่วงนี้คงต้องใจเย็นๆกับการติดตามเงินค้างเก่าของลูกค้าบางราย คงต้องรออีกระยะถึงจะได้มา ท่านควรรับฟังความคิดเห็นของผู้ใหญ่ที่บอกให้ท่านทำบางอย่างซึ่งท่านอาจมอง ว่าเสียเวลาแต่ไม่เป็นเช่นนั้นแน่ กลับจะเป็นประโยชน์ต่อท่านเกินคาดคิด

ราศี มิถุน 15 มิถุนายน ถึง 15 กรกฎาคม

ช่วงนี้ยังคงต้องดูแลสุขภาพให้ดีอีกทั้งการพักผ่อนที่เพียงพอด้วยเพื่อไม่ ให้พลาดโอกาสที่ดีที่กำลังมาแต่หากป่วยหนักขึ้นมาทุกอย่างก็จะสูญเปล่าไปได้ งานในช่วงนี้อาจมีปัญหาเรื่องบุคลากรที่มีฝีมือไม่พอกับความต้องการของท่าน ให้ดำเนินการจัดหาเรื่อยๆอย่าใจร้อนรีบรับเข้ามาหากไม่แน่ใจ เดี๋ยวก็ได้ตามต้องการ ในไม่ช้านี้ ญาติผู้ใหญ่ที่กำลังป่วยอยู่ต้องการกำลังใจจากท่านและลูกหลานควรหาเวลาไปให้ เร็วที่สุดยิ่งดี ท่านยังทำกำไรกับการลงทุนในตลาดทุนได้บ้างแต่ต้องมีวิชาการมากขึ้น

ดูคำทำนายราศีอื่นๆ คลิกที่นี่

ดูดวงความรัก เสริมดวงชะตา การเงิน-การงาน ปี 2554

2010-12-06T03:46:00.000-08:00

ดวงชะตาของท่านในปีเถาะ ดูดวงตลอดปี 2554 (ดูดวงความรัก ดูดวงการเงิน-การงาน ทั้ง 12 ราศี)

ดูดวงความรักตลอดปี 2554 (ช่วงที่จะพบเนื้อคู่ การเสริมมงคลให้สมหวังเรื่องความรัก)

ปีชงและวิธีแก้ชง ปรับดวงชง เสริมดวงชะตา ปี2554 ทั้ง 12 ปีนักษัตร

วิกิลีกส์ (Wikileaks)

2010-12-04T23:38:00.000-08:00

WikiLeaks ระบุว่า ตนเป็นองค์กรอาสาสมัครที่ตั้งอยู่แถบสแกนดิเนเวียร์ ก่อตั้งมาแล้ว 3 ปีครึ่ง ( ปี 2549 ) โดยผู้มีความเห็นไม่ลงรอยกับรัฐบาลจีน รวมทั้งบรรดานักข่าว นักคณิตศาสตร์ และนักเทคนิคเกี่ยวกับการก่อตั้งบริษัท ที่มาจากสหรัฐฯ ไต้หวัน ยุโรป ออสเตรเลีย และแอฟริกาใต้

หนึ่งในผู้ร่วมก่อตั้งคนที่ปัจจุบันเป็น Editor in chief อยู่ เป็นนักข่าวชาวออสเตรเลีย และนักเคลื่อนไหวออนไลน์ ชื่อ Julian Assange (คนที่ออกมาให้ข่าว)

เป้าหมายดั้งเดิมของการก่อตั้ง จะแฉรัฐบาลที่กด ขี่ในเอเชีย อดีตสหภาพโซเวียต ประเทศแถบซับซาฮาสร่าของแอฟริกา และตะวันออกกลาง แต่ก็คาดหวังจะช่วยคนทุกหนแห่งที่ต้องการเปิดเผยพฤติกรรมไร้จริยธรรม ในทุกรัฐบาล หรือบริษัทห้างร้านต่างๆ

อ่านข้อมูลทั้งหมดอย่างละเอียดที่ ( http://info.spiceday.com/thread-182059-1-1.hot )

ดูดวงรายวัน (พยากรณ์ระหว่างวันที่ 4 - 10 ธันวาคม 2553)

2010-12-04T02:40:00.000-08:00

ลัคนาราศีเมษ หรือผู้ที่เกิดระหว่าง 13 เม.ย -14 พ.ค.
ช่วงนี้ คุณจะมีความผูกพันกับครอบครัวมากเป็นพิเศษ อาจได้ไปอยู่ร่วมกัน หรือทำกิจกรรมต่างๆร่วมกัน
การงาน ยังคงมีปัญหาและอุปสรรคในเรื่องของงานเกิดขึ้น ทั้งนี้มาจากความประมาทและความใจร้อนของตัวคุณเอง
การเงิน ตลอดสัปดาห์ คุณจะมีลาภจรเข้ามาเรื่อยๆ
ความรัก คนโสดมีโอกาสปลูกต้นรักกับคนที่คุ้นเคย รู้จักกันมานาน หรือผู้ใหญ่แนะนำ ส่วนคนที่มีคู่ครองคนรัก พึงระวังปัญหารักซ้อนซ่อนรัก

ลัคนาราศีพฤษภ หรือผู้ที่เกิดระหว่าง 15 พ.ค.-15 มิ.ย.
ชีวิตในระยะนี้ทุกสิ่งทุกอย่างยังไม่ได้ดั่งใจนัก ดังนั้นคุณควรระวังในเรื่องของการใช้อารมณ์ของตัวคุณเองในเรื่องต่างๆ
การงาน น่าจะเป็นช่วงที่งานด้านวิชาการให้ผลดี รวมทั้งท่านที่หวังผลสอบจะโดดเด่นดี
การเงิน คู่ครองคนรักและเพศตรงข้ามจะให้โชคให้ลาภ คนที่ลงทุนทำธุรกิจจะได้รับเงินปันผล
ความรัก คนโสดจะพบ เจอกับคนที่อยู่ในแวดวงเดียวกัน โดยเฉพาะผู้ที่เป็นหัวหน้า ส่วนคนที่มีคู่ครองคนรัก มีงอนกันบ้างเล็กๆน้อยๆพอเป็นรสชาติชองชีวิต

ดูราศีอื่นๆ ที่เหลือ คลิกที่นี้

FAT 40 (104.5 FAT RADIO) : 40 อันดับเพลงฮิตติดชาร์ตสัปดาห์ล่าสุด

2010-12-03T08:31:00.000-08:00

ละคร "เธอกับเขาและรักของเรา" (ตอนแรก)/"คู่เดือด" (ตอนแรก)

2010-11-29T21:31:00.000-08:00

ใครจะเป็นผู้ชายในดวงใจของ แป้งร่ำ ติดตามชมบทสรุป...ความรักต้อง ห้ามครั้งนี้ได้ใน ละครเธอกับเขาและรักของเรา ทุกคืน วันจันทร์-อังคาร เวลา 20.30 น. ทางช่อง 7 สี ละครเธอกับเขาและรักของเรา เริ่มตอนแรกวันจันทร์ที่ 29 พฤศจิกายน 2553 นี้

ดู "เธอกับเขาและรักของเรา" ย้อนหลังทุกตอนที่ฉายออกอากาศไปแล้ว

น้ำงาม อำเภอชายแดนทางภาคเหนือของประเทศ ดินแดนบริสุทธิ์ด้วยทรัพยากรธรรมชาติที่สมบูรณ์ ผู้คนที่มีน้ำใจโอบอ้อมอารี ดินแดนที่มีแม่น้ำสายใหญ่กั้นเขตแดนระหว่างเพื่อนบ้าน อีกสองประเทศต่างคบค้า สมาคมกันฉันพี่น้องมาเนิ่นนาน ในหมู่บ้านมีวัดถ้าผาน้ำไหลที่เป็นวัดเล็ก ๆ ที่เงียบสงบ และมีเด็กชายดำตัวเล็ก ๆ คนหนึ่งที่ถูกสายใจแม่บังเกิดเกล้ามาทิ้งไว้ให้หลวงพ่อสิงโตที่เป็นเจ้า อาวาสเลี้ยงก่อนจะหนีไปอยู่กับสามีใหม่ หลวงพ่อสิงโตเลี้ยงให้ดำเติบโตมาด้วยความไม่บกพร่องทางจิตใจ พร้อมกับสอนศิลปะป้องกันตัวไม่ว่าจะเป็นมวยไทยกระบี่กระบอง ซึ่งเป็นวิชาที่หลวงพ่อมีติตัวมาตั้งแต่ยังไม่บวชได้ถูกถ่ายทอดให้ดำจนหมด

ดู "คู่เดือด" ย้อนหลังทุกตอนที่ฉายออกอากาศไปแล้ว

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MET 107 FM Top 40 Chart จัดอันดับเพลงฮิตติดชาร์ต

2010-11-28T02:06:00.000-08:00

94 EFM : TOP 94 จัดอันดับเพลงฮิตติดชาร์ต สัปดาห์ล่าสุด

2010-11-27T05:59:00.000-08:00

FAT 40 (104.5 FAT RADIO) : 40 อันดับเพลงฮิต เพลงฮิตติดชาร์ตสัปดาห์ล่าสุด

2010-11-27T03:00:00.000-08:00

จัดอันดับเพลงฮิต ลูกทุ่งมหานคร 95 FM และ FM 94.5 ลูกทุ่งอินเตอร์

2010-11-26T22:01:00.000-08:00

มหานคร CHART (ลูกทุ่งมหานคร 95 FM) : จัดอันดับเพลงฮิตล่าสุด ประจำวันที่ 21 พฤศจิกายน 2553

FM 94.5 ลูกทุ่งอินเตอร์ : ฮิตจริง พิสูจน์ได้ – Top Chart จัดอันดับเพลงฮิต ประจำวันที่ 21 พฤศจิกายน 2553

อันดับ 1.คนน่าฮัก อกหักบ่คือ – ไหมไทย ใจตะวัน

อันดับ 2.มื้อได๋สิคิดฮอด - ต่าย อรทัย

อันดับ 3.รักจัง – พี สะเดิด

อันดับ 4.สิ่งสุดท้ายที่อ้ายขอ – เอ๊กซ์ อาร์สยาม

อันดับ 5.ไม่ต้องเป็นแฟนเก็บ – ณัฐ กิติสาร อาร์สยาม

HOT 91.5 FM :ซ่า..โดนทีน TOP 20 -จัดอันดับเพลงสัปดาห์ล่าสุด

2010-11-26T19:11:00.000-08:00

เพลงมาใหม่

2010-11-25T02:36:00.000-08:00

จักรวาลวิทยา – วอลนัท (Walnut)
ใจฉัน – บี พีระพัฒน์
ใจฉัน – บงกช เจริญธรรม (เพลงประกอบละครเวที เคนลี่กะก๊วนขี้เล่น)
ชู้ทางตา – ไอน้ำ
ชิมิสะออน – เจี๊ยบ กนกพร อาร์สยาม
ถามสักคำ – นิว ปทิตตา อัธยาตมวิทยา
ปฏิเสธไม่ได้ว่ารักเธอ – แคล Kal (Feat. แบงค์ แคลช)
ผิดกับใจ – Joke โซคูล (So Cool)
ผมขอโทษ – โอ วรต
พลิกล็อกที่หัวใจ – Swee:D
แพ้คำว่ารัก – Calories Blah Blah
เพราะเธอคนเดียว – น้ำ รพีภัทร
ไม่ได้แอ้มฉันหรอก – ปอยฝ้าย มาลัยพร
ไม่มีสิ่งไหน – ใหม่ เจริญปุระ
เมื่อไม่มีเธอในวันที่ฟ้าสีเทา – แดน อภิเชษฐ์
ม้า – The Rooster
แม่บอกไว้ให้ใช้เพลงลม – Mola Mola Sunshine
ฉันรักประเทศไทย – เสก โลโซ (SEK LOSO)
รักเธอ (Love Your Sister) – Jubstreet
เราต่างเป็นคนของเขา – แอน ร็อคแสลง
รักทุกฤดู – น้ำชา ชีรณัฐ (เพลงประกอบละคร ช็อคโกแลต 5 ฤดู)
เสียงของหัวใจ – แอน ธิติมา
สิ่งที่เราไม่เคยเข้าใจ – อาร์มแชร์ Armchair
Butterfly – Cherry Black
Sweet Vampire – Third
No Way – เนลลี Nelly
Like a Star – Taeyeon SNSD
Bye Bye Boy – G-TWENTY
Hello – SHINee
Soom – B2ST
You Wouldn’t Answer My Call – 2AM

ขอถามเรื่องจุดจีว่าอยู่ตรงไหน มีหน้าที่อะไร มีอยู่จริงหรือ ทำอย่างไรจึงจะกระตุ้นจุดจีได้

2009-05-11T09:33:00.000-07:00

…จาก นภดล หนองแขม

ตอบคุณนภดล
จุดจี หรือ G-spot เป็นบริเวณที่มีปมประสาทอยู่ เชื่อว่าเป็นปมประสาทที่ทอดต่อมาจากเส้นประสาทของปุ่มกระสัน (Clitoris) ตำแหน่งที่อยู่ อยู่ที่ผนังช่องคลอดด้านหน้า (Anterior Vagina) หลังกระเพาะปัสสาวะ โดยอยู่กึ่งกลางระหว่างกระดูกหัวหน่าวที่ปากช่องคลอด กับปากมดลูก หากคลำจากปากช่องคลอด น่าจะอยู่ห่างปากช่องคลอด 2.5-5 เซนติเมตร แล้วแต่ความยาวของช่องคลอดของแต่ละบุคคล (ดูรูป) ในบางคนอาจจะคลำได้ เป็นปุ่มเนื้อขรุขระสะดุดมือขนาดเล็กประมาณเม็ดถั่วเหลือง หากขณะมีเพศสัมพันธ์อาจขยายตัวเท่าปลายนิ้วก้อยได้

จุดจี ได้รับการกล่าวถึงในประวัติศาสตร์มากว่าพันปี โดยเรียกว่า ปุ่มศักดิ์สิทธิ์ กว่าจะได้ชื่อว่า จุดจี หรือ Grafenberg Spot ก็ต่อเมื่อ Ernst Gr?fenberg สูติ-นรีแพทย์ ได้เขียนรายงานการค้นพบไว้ ใน ค.ศ 1944

หน้าที่ของจุดจี คือ เป็นบริเวณที่ไวต่อการกระตุ้นทางเพศ ในคุณผู้หญิงบางคน (ไม่ใช่ทุกคน) ในชั้นแรกหากถูกต้องกระตุ้นหรือคลำคลึงปุ่มนี้เป็นเวลานานพอสมควร จะมีความรู้สึกเหมือนอยากปัสสาวะ ต่อมาจึงรู้สึกมีความสุขสุดยอด มีบางคนเชื่อว่าตนเองหลั่งได้

Online Dating Safety For Men

2008-04-30T01:09:00.000-07:00

Almost everything you read about online dating safety is directed at women but men need to be concerned as well. Perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes come in both sexes, all sizes, and all ages…as do, liars and cheaters. So men need to stay on guard, too.

It is common knowledge not to readily give out personal information to strangers. The reason for not doing so is as large as the number of strangers who want that information. If you come across a person who is giving out personal information and asking others to do the same, don’t do it. You don’t know what they want to use it for….and you had better believe they want to use it for something. That “something” will not be for your benefit. Men, also, need to guard their real names, addresses, phone numbers, and place of employment. Do not give that information to anyone online until you are confident that they are who they say they are.

Men, be wary of women who seem too financially needy. If they ask for money, in any of a dozen ways women can ask for money, cut the relationship off immediately. They are not looking for love or even friendship….they are looking for financial help.

If a woman gives you a contact number but you cannot ever reach her at that number, beware. If you always have to page them or text them and have them call you back, this could be a sign that what they are telling you is not the complete truth.

A need to get married and insecurity are other signs men should be very wary of. If the woman is pushing too hard for a commitment you aren’t ready to make, it might be a good time to head for the nearest exit.

Online Dating is Not a Contest

2008-04-29T01:08:00.000-07:00

Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.

What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

Women want a man to be confident…NOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live up to that expectation.

Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all. They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.

Online Dating For Single Men

2008-04-28T01:06:00.000-07:00

No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want. If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.

Online Dating Can Be Tough

2008-04-27T01:03:00.000-07:00

Here’s a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys: Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Are you surprised? It’s true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages, too. That’s true for internet dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.

Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.

Remember…confident and interesting….and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered. It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of that…so don’t insult her intelligence. Remember….exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.

Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.

Men Who Cheat And The Women Who Can't Stop Loving Them

2007-09-15T04:41:00.000-07:00

By Christine Akiteng
Remember all the times you swore “If a guy cheated on me, I would kick him to the curb. To me that would be a big betrayal, which I don't think I could look past”?

He cheated on you alright, you are upset, hurt and feel betrayed but you still love him despite yourself. What happened to you and how come you haven’t kicked him to the curb yet? Okay, may be you did, but how come you are going back and forth about “forgiving” him and moving past his infidelity? How come you still love him just as much as before he cheated?

The first questions most women ask after discovering that their men have cheated with someone else are. Why did you do this? Who is she? How many times? Where was I? Did you talk about me?. On the surface level it seems that the main and most hurtful ingredient is the lying, deception and secrecy. But on a deeper down level the questions a person who has been cheated on wants an answer to are: “Wasn’t I good enough?” Am I really that disposable? Did I really not mean that much to you at all? Is she prettier, sexier or better than me in any way?

When somebody cheats on you, they not only hurt your feelings and emotions, they actually “take away” something from you. It’s not just a betrayal of your trust/relationship but a betrayal of how you see yourself as a woman and as a person. That is probably why it hurts so deeply -- and for a long time.

The more details he gives -- even if it’s truthfully and fully -- the more inadequate, unworthy and confused you feel. You think may be if I was this or that he’d not have gone outside of the relationship to find it. That may be true in some cases and to the extent that there can be unmet needs and unhappiness in a relationship which make a man look for his needs to be met outside the relationship BUT men do not cheat because of women, MEN (AND WOMEN) CHEAT BECAUSE OF THEM. Cheating is a personal choice he makes knowing full well what the risks and consequences are. And no, it did not “just happen” out of nowhere, the choice to cheat came from somewhere inside of him.

Okay, he is flawed and has some serious issues, but you still love him. Where does that leave you? You’re the one who has the big decision to make. Do you stay with him or do you kick him to the curb? Do you forgive him or do you make him pay? What does what you decide to do say about you?

What you decide to do should be your choice. Just as he made a conscious choice to cheat, it’s your choice to stay or leave. Others may give their advice but the choice ought to come from you. Personally, I believe the choice to stay or leave is really secondary. Whether you leave or stay isn’t as nearly important as WHICH YOU is staying or leaving.

The basic issue with cheating is NOT that someone has lied or betrayed our trust. This is the common view (and serious misconception) in our society about cheating and infidelity. We love to divide more complex issues into little meaningless pieces (Was it an emotional affair or was sex involved? Did it happen once or several times and all the the other compartmentalization mentality). Cheating is so much more and it affects us (men and women) much more deeply than we as a society have allowed ourselves to comprehend.

If you genuinely love someone, your genuine feelings of love don’t just disappear. If it’s true love, you can’t switch it on and off because a man (or woman) lied, kept is a secret or betrayed your trust. This is because when you open yourself to truly love someone, it’s not just them you are in love with; you are also in love with the aspects of yourself that they mirror back to you. When that mirror is shattered or broken (as in cheating) you can not see yourself clearly anymore and you even question whatever it is that you see. Repairing and putting together this broken mirror image of yourself to its original condition (or better) should be your first and primary concern.

If you decide to forgive him and stay in the relationship without taking time to repair and put together that broken mirror image to its original condition (or better) you stay looking at a broken mirror image of yourself. You may even “forgive” him but you eternally feel the gaps in your sense of self. You find that you mistrust (and even disrespect) your own internal signals or intuition. You continue to doubt your own self-worth and competence and desperately seek validation from him or turn elsewhere for validation. Even more than that you become excessively sensitized to signals that might suggest that he feels unappreciated, unneeded, or unsuccessful -- it’s like being re-traumatized over and over. Even in the best of situations, you experience a lack of understanding, genuine appreciation, and a fundamental gap in receptiveness or responsiveness.

And if you decide to leave and find yourself someone else -- again without taking time to repair and put together that broken mirror image to its original condition (or better) -- what you take to your new relationship are blurred and broken pieces of a reflection of yourself which are further distorted when mirrored in your new man. Often times you will not trust what you see in your new man and this can get you really jealous and paranoid even when he has done nothing to trigger those feelings in you. The reverse can be that you become completely numb to how you feel (and his affections for you) causing him to become jealous and even paranoid. (Does she love me? Is she still in love with her ex? Is there someone else? Did I make the right decision with this person?). etc.

Once you’ve done the repair work and put together that broken mirror image of yourself, you may decide that you want to make the relationship work. You will be making this conscious choice from a place of empowerment (clear and whole sense of yourself). Or you may decide you can't live with him but you don't ever have to stop loving him - those aspects of yourself that you saw in him and loved.

This is what standing in love with yourself truly means. This is the secret of attracting true love - and a new loving man. And this is true for women as well as for men.

You'll find more articles I've written on Break-Ups, Cheating and Exes in the ARTILCES section of my website. It's my hope that you'll find your way home - to true love!

About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of eBook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness™. Her unique approach to dating has helped hundreds create positive, constructive, honest and fulfilling relationships.

Christine's websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com

The Health Benefits of Sex

2007-02-13T16:44:00.003-08:00

Lose weight. Reduce stress. Lower your cholesterol level. Improve your circulation. Live longer. Stay younger. Sounds like an ad for a new wonder drug right? In fact it's a partial list of the benefits of humanity's oldest and most pleasurable pastime - sex.

Most of us are aware of the feel-good benefits of sex while we're engaged in it, but do you also know that there are benefits which carry on after the sweaty bodies have dried and the sweet talk has reverted to sports? For instance:

Maintaining Ideal Body Weight

There are 3500 calories in a pound of fat. For every 3500 calories you burn (that you do not replace with food!) you will lose one pound of fat. Sexual intercourse burns approximately 150 calories per half hour. Here's how that stacks up against some other activities that may be part of your fitness regime: yoga 114 calories per half hour, dancing - rock 129, walking - 3mph 153, weight training 153, canoeing - 2mph 153, volleyball 174.

According to one survey reported by the Ottawa Citizen, Canadians on average have sex 7.33 times per month, lasting approximately 24.4 minutes. That means that "Joe Canada" is burning off more than 10 thousand calories a year, or about 3 pounds, in a not particularly active sex life. Those who are more sexually active, into Tantra for instance where lovemaking lasts 4 hours, would burn up 600 calories a session. At once a week that's 31,200 calories or 9 pounds per year. Considering that people put weight on gradually, slowly gaining 5-10 pounds per year until they are overweight, it's not unrealistic to assume that regular sexual activity is one way to help maintain a healthy body weight.

Increased Blood Flow

Sex helps increase the blood flow to your brain and to all other organs of your body. Increased heart rate and deep breathing accounts for the improvement in circulation. As fresh blood supply arrives, your cells, organs and muscles are saturated with fresh oxygen and hormones, and as the used blood is removed, you also remove waste products that cause fatigue and even illness.

Lower Cholesterol

Lowering your cholesterol is another of the "sex as exercise" benefits. Sex helps lower the overall cholesterol level. Perhaps more importantly it tips the HDL/LDL (good/bad) cholesterol balance towards the healthier HDL side.

Stress Reduction, Relaxation and Improved Sleep

People having frequent sex often report that they handle stress better, so the normal stresses of living do not become distress. The profound relaxation that typically follows lovemaking, with orgasm for women and ejaculation and/or orgasm for men, may be one of the few times people actually allow themselves to completely let go, surrender and relax. Many indicate that they sleep more deeply and restfully after satisfying lovemaking. In the relaxing afterglow you may be able to let go of distracting thoughts. Being able to stop thinking has helped many to overcome insomnia.

Sex as Pain Reliever

Through the touch magic of sex the hormone oxytocin is secreted in your body which in turn causes the release of endorphins. Because of these natural opiates sex acts as a powerful analgesic, elevating the pain threshold and helping to relieve the aches of conditions like arthritis, whiplash and headaches. Now there's a novel approach, sex as a remedy for headache rather than an excuse for abstaining!

With arousal and orgasm oxytocin levels rise. They spike 3 to 5 times higher than usual just before orgasm. In fact it is oxytocin that triggers the orgasm. Measurements performed at the Masters and Johnson laboratories have shown that the uterine contractions brought about by orgasm (triggered by oxytocin) are just as powerful as those of child labor. Women can use this extraordinary orgasmic contraction and relaxation of the uterine muscle to relieve cramps during PMS and menstruation.

Live Longer, Stay Younger

A British study of 1,000 men found those who had at least two orgasms a week had half the death rate of their countrymen who indulge less than once a month.

The hormone DHEA promotes sexual excitement and increases in response to it. Dr Theresa Crenshaw author of The Alchemy of Love and Lust says DHEA may be the most powerful chemical in our personal world. It helps balance the immune system, improves cognition, promotes bone growth, and maintains and repairs tissues, keeping your skin healthy and supple. It may also contribute to cardiovascular health and even function as antidepressant.

Prostate and Genital Health

Some doctors believe that more than 75% of men over 50 have a somewhat enlarged prostate, and that virtually all men will suffer from prostate enlargement if they live long enough. This condition, called benign prostate hypertrophy (BPH), is normal and usually not dangerous. Unfortunately, some of these men develop prostate cancer, one of the leading causes of death in older men. Regular sexual intercourse with frequent ejaculations will help to keep the prostate healthy.

For those men who practice delaying ejaculation, for example in the practice of Tantra Sacred Sex, performing Kegel exercises (in which you contract the muscles around your genitals), will tone these muscles, just as exercising other muscles tones other areas of your body. More importantly, these exercises will help keep the prostate healthy, by moving the sexual energy up out of the prostate and circulating it throughout your body. The technique is very simple and you can perform hundreds of contractions per day for top sexual/physical fitness for both men and women. Imagine you are urinating, but want to stop the flow of urine, that's all there is to it.

Contracting your muscles in this way is one of the healthiest exercises you could add to your exercise regime. When 178 Belgian men with minor erection problems participated in a 4-month daily rehabilitation program which primarily focused on Kegel exercises, 74 percent showed improvement and 43 percent were cured. For women, Kegels strengthen the entire urogenital tract, aiding greatly in childbirth and preventing the onset of incontinence in later life. They also sensitize the genital tissues, helping women to become orgasmic and/or increase the intensity of their orgasms

Boost Testosterone and Estrogen

Regular sexual activity boosts testosterone and estrogen levels in both men and women. Besides boosting your libido testosterone fortifies bones and muscles. Some physicians suggest that testosterone keeps hearts healthy and good cholesterol high. Testosterone is what makes the sex drive in men and women more aggressive. It makes you want to have sex, pursue sex, initiate sex and perhaps dominate the lovemaking. Testosterone seems to motivate both men and women to strongly desire specific genital sex and release by orgasm. Because men have so much testosterone, they seem obsessed with genitals, intercourse and ejaculation, but appear to care less for romance and foreplay-touching, hugging, cuddling, eye gazing, etc.

Sex increases women's estrogen levels keeping vaginal tissues more supple and also protecting against heart disease. It is estrogen that makes a woman sexually receptive and responsive to a man's approach. It is estrogen that makes her want to be touched and feel romantic, it is testosterone that makes her want to be penetrated. Estrogen makes a woman soft-breasts develop in response to estrogen. Estrogen is a powerful influence on how a woman smells. It influences the degree to which she projects softness, openness, and interest in sexual touching.

Men's bodies also produce estrogen. In fact testosterone can be converted into estrogen in the man's body. Some estrogen helps a man to develop the softer, more nurturing feminine sides of their personalities. As men age, the testosterone/estrogen balance begins to shift, with testosterone decreasing and estrogen increasing, and this is one reason why so many men seem to mellow out as they get older.

The Healing Power of Intimacy

Sex is good for you, but sex with love is even better. According to Dr. Dean Ornish author of 'Love and Survival: the Scientific Basis for the Healing Power of Intimacy', "an open heart can lead to the most joyful and ecstatic sex". His researches into intimacy and its effects on health have shown that "anything that promotes feelings of love and intimacy is healing". If you have someone who really cares for you and for whom you care in return, someone you are intimately connected with in all ways - emotional, physical and more -- then you may be three to five times less likely at risk of premature death and disease from all causes.

Part of this has to do with the positive effects of touch, what Dr. Crenshaw refers to as Vitamin T. The chemical composition of your body is changed by touch. Caressing, hugging, stroking, cuddling send a chain reaction of chemicals to signal your brain that this is pleasurable, nurturing, good.

There is strong scientific evidence demonstrating the importance of touch to good health. In the 1930s, Dr. Rene Spitz, attending physician at a number of nurseries, noticed that the illness and mortality rates were quite a bit higher in some of the nurseries. His observations and experiments led to the finding that the children who were becoming ill and dying had nothing to do with hygiene or nutrition, but rather had to do with the amount of touching the infants received from the attending staff. He confirmed his findings by hiring "grandmothers" to come into the nurseries to hold, fondle, and cuddle the children. The illness and mortality rates declined rapidly.

Researchers at Miami's Touch Research Institute (TRI) found that premature infants who received three massages a day over 10 days gained 47 percent more weight than preemies who weren't massaged. David Sebringsil, who writes regularly for The Society For Human Sexuality (one of the best online sources of excellent, sex-positive information), recommends Erotic Massage become a part of or alternative to regular lovemaking. It is one of the best ways to help someone achieve extended, multiple, or "whole body" orgasmic states. Through erotic massage partners learn to give and receive loving touch and extraordinary pleasure. It makes you healthier and happier.

Healthy blood, healthy bones, healthy heart, healthy body and a peaceful mind - all thanks to the healing powers of sex. Next time you're in the mood let her know you've got the doctor on your side!

Al Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra. They regularly host Tantra Sacred Loving weekends near Ottawa Canada, and weeklong retreats in exotic locations around the planet. For more information call toll free from Canada or USA: 1-800-684-5308 International long distance: 1-819-689-5308. Visit their website http://www.tantra-sex.com/ or send email: 4freedoms@tantraloving.com Their book, Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, is published by New Page Books, 2003.

Freeing the Female Orgasm

2007-02-13T16:44:00.001-08:00

Women's capacity for orgasm is awesome. They can come over and over again, and still be ready for more! This capacity seems almost limitless. They can experience clitoral orgasms, g-spot orgasms, vaginal orgasms, ejaculatory orgasms, blended orgasms, and not only one but multiples of any of these! They've even been blessed with a body part, the clitoris, whose only purpose is sexual pleasure. This may all seem a bit unfair to men who typically reach a precipice, fall over the edge, roll over and go to sleep!

Why is it then that so many women are frustrated rather than satisfied? Why is it that for so many loving couples, the female orgasm remains an elusive dream; one in which she's perhaps become resigned to sex that's pleasurable but not truly satisfying, or even worse, faking it to salvage her partner's ego. If it is really bad perhaps she fakes orgasm just to get the sexual ordeal over with! Or he sadly wonders: What's wrong with me? Why can't I make her come despite stiff fingers and aching tongue? His sexual self-esteem is wounded, and he secretly feels less of a man believing he has failed her.

The first step on the path to freeing a woman's orgasm is for both men and women to understand that men do not give women orgasms. Women allow themselves to have orgasms. Despite popular belief, no matter how good a lover you may be, unless your partner can give herself up to the pleasures of her body, she won't have orgasms. This realization alone can open the door to women becoming orgasmic. It takes the pressure to "perform" off of men, and it frees women to take responsibility for their own sexual fulfillment.

This is very important. If your woman is blaming you, and you may also be blaming yourself for her not having orgasms, it is quite possible, even likely, that you are both looking in the wrong place to solve the problem. Mind you, an unskilled, selfish, or insensitive male lover can be a real problem, and at the very least is certainly a dull bore. And to say that a woman is responsible for her own sexual fulfillment does not mean you revert to a slam-bam-thank-you-ma'am approach to sex and let her fend for herself. After all, the more skilled and attentive a lover is the more pleasure he himself receives, and although you can't give her an orgasm you certainly can help her to have one, or even lots of them. So even though it's not entirely up to you, there is something you can do to help.

The biggest barrier to orgasm for women is mental distraction - thoughts that float into her mind, catching her in her head, and taking her away from what's going on in her body. As soon as she starts thinking, she is out of the moment and will lose touch with her senses and her pleasure. Some of these thoughts may trigger feelings of shame or guilt about experiencing sexual pleasure, for no matter how liberated our attitudes toward sex seem to have become, there yet exists the perception that "good" girls don't! Even today women are divided into categories of "virgin" or "whore". Those who engage lustily in the delights of the body are somehow morally questionable. You can help your delectable partner move beyond these pleasure stifling attitudes by letting her know how much you respect, admire and cherish her fully female sensual self. Tell her often, especially when you're making love, that it thoroughly turns you on to see her let loose the passionate side of her nature.

This is not always easy for men to do. They may have internalized an unconscious conditioning that leads them to accept the rather misogynist belief that women can't be good and pure, and also be fantastic lovers. If they believe this, they are placing themselves in a very unfortunate situation. This belief system inevitably leads to the man selecting one woman for a partner, spouse and mother, and a different partner for an affair or mistress. Adultery is about the only option left to a man who holds such a belief system. The resulting deceit and lying force a separation between the couple and the relationship ends soon enough, for example in breaking up or divorce. In this scenario, the man is at fault and the solution does lie with him. Only a change in his beliefs will solve this problem.

Sexual abuse is a horror and curse that is unbelievably common in our society. Women that have been sexually abused often have great difficulty in allowing themselves to trust their lover, let go into the sensual moment, and surrender to sexual ecstasy. If your lady is having difficulty experiencing orgasm; if you are a reasonably skilled lover; and if you have communicated to her that you honestly wish her to fully awaken as a sexual partner, then the problem could be some psychological damage from sexual abuse. Ask her about this with the greatest tenderness and caring that you are capable of. Be aware that many women actually blame themselves for their own sexual abuse, so this can be the touchiest of all possible subjects for discussion. If sexual abuse is an issue, it is advisable to encourage her to seek professional counseling or some other form of help.

Besides worrying about whether they are "bad" if they really enjoy and want sex "a lot", many women worry about enjoying sex the right way. They worry about how they look, smell and taste. They worry that the cellulite in their upper thighs or the slight bulge of tummy fat may quiver unattractively. They worry about being "clean down there". They worry about how long it takes to reach climax, how much time their man has to spend stroking, licking, and caressing to help them fly over the mountain. All of these thoughts take them out of lovemaking. To help her stay in the pleasures of her body tell her with words and sounds and looks that you adore her, you love to devour her with your tongue, you could keep on touching her forever, it's a delight to you to give her pleasure. And mean it, because if you haven't learned how to enjoy pleasuring your partner, pretty soon you won't have one!

Once she's able to relax into the joys of lovemaking and focus on the exquisite sensations her body can feel rather than listening to the demon distractors her mind can conjure up, a woman's path to orgasm is much clearer. With particular loving skills of your own you can assist her to break that path wide open.

Most men enjoy having their genitals touched at any time, whether they're sexually aroused or not. This isn't usually the case with women. Think of the vagina as a "potential" opening, a magical door that will happily open wide to receive you, but only after you've called ahead to ensure your welcome. Be certain she's eager for your genital explorations by focusing loving attention on other parts of her body first - lots of kissing, neck nuzzling, tender strokes on back, shoulders and arms, then adoring caresses of her breasts. Only after you sense she's ready, through signs like rapid breathing, flushed skin, hardened nipples or enticing moans should you move to her vagina. Once your hand or mouth is at her sweet honey pot begin to explore it from the outside inward - outer lips, clitoris, inner lips, vaginal canal.

Generally women reach orgasm most easily through clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is extremely sensitive to touch of all kinds. Often the head of the clitoris, the pointed tip, is too sensitive for much direct pressure, so focus your attention on the sides. Touch around the clitoris instead of right on it, at least until her level of excitement increases. The skin tissue of your fingers is not nearly as sensitive as the tissue around her clitoris. But the tissue of your mouth and tongue is an almost perfect match in sensitivity. Unless you are more highly skilled in using your fingers, it is a much safer way to start by using your mouth for oral stimulation of the clitoris. Experiment with different pressures, strokes and speeds. Ask her which ones she likes best. A good way to do this is to try two different touches, then ask her if she likes "a" or "b" better.

If she's willing, invite her to masturbate for you so you can learn exactly how she likes to be touched. Many women are shy to do this at first but with some gentle encouragement she may really show her wanton self. It can be a great turn-on for both of you. Many men are actually quite frightened by a woman who is fully sexually awakened. They may doubt their own ability as a man to keep up, or to be able to perform adequately. They may fear that if she is too much woman sexually for him, that she may go elsewhere and find what she wants. It may help you to overcome this fear if you remember that you are not responsible for giving your lady sexual satisfaction. She must do that for herself. But if this fear is very strong, you may seek counseling help to deal with it.

When you do find a particular stroke or caress that is really driving her wild, keep doing it and keep doing it and keep doing it. Don't change anything about it. Don't go faster, slower, softer, harder, or switch direction. Keep doing exactly the same thing until she lets you know she wants a change either through words or body movement. This holds true whether you're pleasuring her clitorally or vaginally with your fingers or your mouth. Keep going even if your hands or mouth get really tired!

It's a good idea to wait until she is very aroused before entering her vagina either with your fingers or your penis. Generally if she's not wet, she's not ready. It's as simple as that. If your lover doesn't have a lot of natural vaginal juices even when she is fully aroused be sure to use a good silicone or water-based lubricant. Nothing can be a quicker turn-off than rough, dry skin rubbing on soft vaginal tissues. Water-based or silicone lubricant is better because oil can clog the sensitive vaginal tissue.

The most sensitive part of a woman's vaginal canal is the first inch to two inches. It's here that most of the nerve endings are located, so when you first enter her concentrate most of your attention there. The elusive g-spot can usually be found in this general area, on the top of the vaginal wall, a couple of inches in. Imagine a glass lying on the floor. If you reach your first two fingers into the glass at the top, i.e., toward the ceiling rather than the bottom towards the floor, you should find it. It is difficult to reach the g-spot through intercourse, so you will find it much easier with you fingers than with your penis. There are also some interesting dildos and vibrators with just the right shape to reach the G-spot. Move your index finger or your first two fingers in a "come hither" motion (as if you were asking someone from across the room to come over to where you are) and gently stroke her. When you touch her g-spot you may notice a more bumpy or raised area of skin, but you may not. The best way to know you've found this highly intense love spot is by her reaction. Where you look is not quite as important as when you look. Unless she is excited through and through, perhaps from a clitoral orgasm beforehand, it can be difficult to find the g-spot.

Stimulation of the g-spot can produce extraordinarily intense orgasms. As a woman is approaching a g-spot orgasm she may feel she has to urinate. This may immediately cause her to tighten up, stop, and pull back from the edge of bliss. If she can stay relaxed and keep going through that "have-to-pee" sensation it will pass and move on into deep waves of sexual delight. The woman should urinate before intercourse begins, so she can be more confident that the feeling that she has to urinate is a misleading feeling and can be safely ignored.

For most women it is difficult to reach a climax through intercourse alone. This is because the sensitive clitoris isn't easily stimulated just by thrusting motions; the g-spot is difficult to reach with even a fully erect penis; and because often the male partner goes over the edge into ejaculatory orgasm before the woman has had enough action to bring her to the heights. If you touch her clitoris before and during intercourse, and if you've pleasured her vaginally by touching the g-spot with your fingers, the chances are much better that she will have a deep vaginal orgasm while your penis is inside her.

Learn the strokes that turn her on. Tell her how fabulous it is that she's sensual and sexual. Let her know you adore her body and love to touch and kiss it for hours. Help her forget about trying to make orgasm happen and focus instead on thoroughly enjoying every moment of lovemaking. If you awaken your multi-orgasmic woman you are going to like it!

How to Make First Sex Fabulous Sex

2007-02-13T16:42:00.000-08:00

The heat is on. You can literally feel it arcing between you. Whether it's an enticing stranger you've just met or a special someone you've been slowly getting to know, you're aware that now is the time to take your connection to the physical level. You can sense that she's about ready to hop into bed and you damn well know that you are. So how do you make this first time with someone new a glorious moment you'll both fondly remember rather than a nightmare you'd just as soon forget?

The first thing to zero in on is attitude. What exactly is it you want from this coming sexual encounter -- a lusty one night romp or the beginning of a longstanding passionate relationship?

There certainly is nothing wrong with a one-night stand. There is something extremely exciting about sex with a stranger, with absolutely no strings attached. Many women feel this way, not only men. What we all have to be careful about is simply using the other person, treating them as an object only for our satisfaction.

No one likes being treated as an object. No one likes being used for someone else's purpose. Men typically use women as sex objects. But just as often women treat men as success objects. What does it mean to treat a person as an object? It means you use that person to get what you want without particular regard to what happens to them or how they feel. At one extreme you would not even care if you actually cause harm. More frequently harm is not intended, but the well being of the person you are using is of little or no concern to you. What is of concern to you is to get what you want, which in this case is sex.

When you want sex and you do anything necessary to get it you are using the woman as a sex object. You may lie and otherwise be deceitful about what is really going on. You may pretend to care or be interested in her, but all you really want is to get laid. After you get what you want, you disappear and she never hears from you again. You don't call. You may not even say hello on the street. You may feel contempt or disgust toward her for having had sex with you. But this is really a disguised form of self-contempt and self-hatred projected onto women. It is very unhealthy and in the long run will leave you alone, lonely, bitter and cynical. This is hardly a prescription for happiness.

Quick sex between consenting adults is not about using each other as an object, assuming both of you understand what is happening, and no deceit is involved. We call this scenario "no-strings sex." With no-strings sex, both parties understand that it is not intended that you will ever see each other again. You do not exchange addresses or phones or personal histories. This situation ranks high on the list of most common fantasy for both men and women. The sex may be extremely hot and passionate. Both lovers may feel an extraordinary freedom and be willing to let go completely, dropping their usual sexual shyness and restraint. Often they will experiment with and allow themselves to enjoy what they would only dream of doing, but never allow themselves to do with someone they knew or were in an ongoing relationship with. They may experiment with things they did not even dream were possible.

There are only two rules for no-strings sex. They are very simple rules.

Rule #1: Mutual consent for everything is mandatory. By "mutual consent" we mean that all aspects of your lovemaking are agreed to by both. You meet together on the sexual playing field as equals. No one gets physically hurt. When your partner says "I don't want to do that" or "stop, that hurts" you must stop instantly. This is where "no" always means no.

Rule #2: Don't try to find her later!

The other type of first time encounter is with someone with whom you intend to have an ongoing relationship. We will call this scenario "relationship sex." With relationship sex, it is understood by both of you that there may be an ongoing relationship after the sex. In fact, it would be quite normal for relationship sex to take place after you have been seeing each other for some time. In this scenario sex is not the start of the relationship, but a deepening of it. It is also quite common for a relationship to start with a sexual encounter. If the sex rocks the earth, or even if it is just pretty good, you may want to go further into relationship to see if you can connect on other important levels and make something work together in the longer run. This could evolve into living together or even marriage.

The first rule for no-strings sex also applies to relationship sex. 1. Mutual consent for everything is mandatory. In addition to this rule there are a few others to keep in mind. 2. Great respect is mandatory. 3. Great caring is mandatory. 4. Open, honest communication is mandatory. 5. Gentleness is used as required, and roughness is used as mutually desired.

The Rules

1. Mutual consent for everything is mandatory. If you do not both enjoy it, what is the point? Remember, we are not using each other, we are loving each other. It is certainly all right for one partner to try things because the other person likes it even if they don't, but this is a gift freely given and cannot be required.

2. Great respect is mandatory. Respect implies that you are aware of what the other person wants. You are willing to discover what they are capable of and what their sexual limits are. Your lover may have been injured psychologically or emotionally from past relationships. In fact this will almost certainly be the case, almost everyone has had their heart broken at least once. At the extreme, they may have experienced sexual abuse as a child. They may feel insecure about their sexuality. They may suffer from low self-esteem as a lover. They may be quite inexperienced in sexual technique. You must be extremely patient and ever so sensitive to the messages they send out about how fast to proceed, what to do and not do. Talk openly to establish the boundaries of your sexuality. Then experiment to push back the boundaries at a pace you can both find comfortable and safe.

3. Great caring is mandatory. Love is always given and received as a gift. It has been said that there is no such thing as bad sex, that sex without love can still be great sex, but sex with caring adds a warmth that connects two hearts and souls together. This is sex beyond technique. Sex with caring leaves the lovers filled. Sex with love leaves the lovers overflowing. It is caring that moves sex beyond the physical to allow for the creation of a deeper spiritual connection. Most men want an emotional connection and most would welcome a more spiritual experience of sex, but they are afraid and they just haven't learned how to do it yet. Most women quite frankly, require the emotional connection as the price of entry.

4. Gentleness is used as required, and roughness is used as mutually desired. With mutual consent anything goes. But it is usually best to start out with more gentleness and progress to more roughness only as you learn that she wants it and likes it. Many women like a playful roughness as long as they feels truly safe. But if you have not established a high degree of trust with her, roughness prematurely can end what could have been an excellent long-term sexually passionate relationship.

5. Open, honest communication is mandatory. Talk about sex. Tell each other what you like and dislike. A good way to do this is to always offer choices A and B and ask which she likes best. This avoids the damage to fragile egos that young men are so prone to when they are learning about a new lover. If a man hears, "I don't like that" it is very easy for him to have his feelings hurt and this may cause him to withdraw, or get angry, or react in some dysfunctional way. But if you give your women, for example, the choice between fondling her breasts this way, or this way, and ask which is best, you will not have your feelings hurt, and you will quickly learn what she really likes. This is how a lover becomes a great lover.

If you need to have your imagination stimulated to know what to try, read any of several great lover's manuals available in good bookstores everywhere. Then use the A-or-B technique to find out about your woman specifically. Here are a few titles to look for. You can order these from our web site if you can't find them in your local bookstore.

"Soul Sex: Tantra for Two", by Pala Copeland and Al Link
"The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers" by Margo Anand
"How to Make Love All Night (And Drive a Woman Wild: Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)" by Barbary Keesling
"The New Male Sexuality" by Bernie Zilbergeld
"How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation" by Helen Singer Kaplan

Once you've honestly considered your attitude you can move into the physical aspects of loving: like the setting, foreplay, afterplay and all the juicy bits in between. In the East there is a long tradition of the warrior lover ? a man who has prepared himself physically, emotionally and mentally for the great and glorious battle between the sheets. This is not for dominating or defeating your lover but for skillfully bringing out the best in both of you so you can rise to new heights in your sexuality.

The idea of creating the right ambience for lovemaking may seem artificial or calculated, but there is an art to great loving and why not bring out the artist in yourself? A secluded place, candlelight, music, wine, food and clean sheets may sound like a trite scene from an old James Bond movie but they still hold true. Women love to be adored and creating a special place for loving shows that you care about what they want too.

It has become common knowledge that foreplay is very important in bringing a woman to sexual satisfaction. She takes longer to become aroused to the point where she can match you in intensity of desire. But what is also essential is afterplay. When you've come to a happy climax don't just roll over and go to sleep or get up and go home. Even though your hormones may be telling you you're finished, your lover won't be. Take the time and make the effort to show your appreciation and caring through some tender cuddling and soft words or by sharing some food and conversation. You'll benefit too from staying in love's sweet afterglow.

Finally, it shouldn't have to be said but it still does, always, always practice safe sex. Use condoms and dental dams until you are certain you're in a completely monogamous relationship and you've both had AIDS tests. Remember good first time sex with someone means no one gets hurt, during loving or afterwards.